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He left Spain to Become The Best Dating Coach In The World

Ep. 065: Exclusive Interview with Alvaro Reyes: From Shy Teen to 100k/Month Dating Coach Solopreneur

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Are you still putting off that big dream, telling yourself “someday” while days—and years—drift by?

Well, if so, you need to meet Alvaro Reyes, whom i had the honor to interview today.

Once a shy Spanish kid from a strict household who drifted into a safe-but-stifling career, Alvaro Reyes woke up to find his life slipping into tedious monotony. Now, he’s traveling the globe, earning 100k a month, and helping thousands of men shatter their own limitations to become unstoppable forces of purpose.

If you think dramatic change is impossible,

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From Lab-Coat Prison to Grand Ambitions

Alvaro’s upbringing in Spain was strict, and his conservative family’s mantra was simple:

Do what’s expected, don’t rock the boat, and stick to the safe path. He followed the rules, earning a biology degree and landing a job in a lab. But every hour spent in that white coat felt like a sentence. The environment was sterile in more ways than one; it offered security but killed any spark of creative drive.

Boredom turned to frustration as Alvaro realized he was “trapped in the matrix.”

He asked himself, “Is this all there is”? 

This question proved to be the first domino.

The next step?

Rejecting the idea that a stable job was the pinnacle of success.

“I wasn’t made to work under someone else’s rules—I was meant to invent my own path.”

Alvaro Reyes

Discovering an Unexpected Gift

On a search for an exit, Alvaro tried learning social skills to conquer his own shyness.

Soon, he discovered something remarkable: he possessed a talent for assisting other men in overcoming their own barriers.

Quiet by nature, he empathized deeply with social anxieties and insecurities—and people responded. He began posting videos on YouTube, offering bite-sized tips on building confidence.

The views trickled in, then flooded in with dozens of videos with tens of millions of views.

DMs poured into his inbox from men all over Spain and eventually Latin America, seeking a practical roadmap for self-improvement. In those online messages, Alvaro glimpsed a calling far bigger than a lab bench.

Going Global: A Risk That Paid Off

Leaving behind family and friends who feared for his safety, Alvaro set out on a one-way trip to Mexico.

While they warned of crime and chaos, he saw only possibility: new markets, broader audiences, and the freedom to test his potential without his hometown’s preconceived judgments. He discovered that “you can’t always be a prophet in your own land.” Critiques and controversies back home were stifling, so he made Latin America his second home base.

Turns out, embracing the unknown paid off.

Workshops sold out, social media numbers soared, and soon he was hopping from one major city to another—each flight adding credibility and revenue to his growing empire.

The Transformation: Three Key Takeaways

1. Say “Yes” to Opportunities

Young people often say "NO" due to fear. Alvaro’s breakthrough came when he flipped the script. Say YES.

Every new city, every uncertain venture, was a chance to reinvent himself. Growth rewards the bold.

2. Master Social & Communication Skills

Leading workshops for men across different countries taught him that confidence isn’t just about “picking up girls”—it’s about articulating a vision and connecting on a human level.

If you can’t communicate, you can’t lead.

3. Align with a Higher Purpose

Money alone doesn’t fill the void.

Alvaro noticed his success soared once he tied his work to something bigger—helping others conquer their fears and realize their potential.

That sense of mission fueled him far more than a monthly paycheck.

A World-Class Coach Earning 100k a Month

Alvaro Reyes didn’t stumble into a six-figure income overnight—it was the byproduct of unshackling himself from a dull routine, betting on his talents, and continually adapting.

He leveraged YouTube, social media, and in-person seminars to create a thriving business model.

However, his influence extends beyond the numbers, with each transformation story from his clients serving as a testament to the power of self-belief and unwavering drive.

Your Call to Action

Think about where you feel “lab-coat” stuck—maybe it’s a 9-to-5 job, a hometown mentality, or a comfort zone you’ve outgrown. Challenge yourself to:

Identify One Bold Move: Enroll in that course, send that pitch email, or even buy a plane ticket if that’s what it takes.

Invest in Your Communication Skills: Whether it’s public speaking or networking, never underestimate how crucial it is to connect authentically.

Define Your Purpose: Ask yourself why you’re doing this. Passion without direction quickly fizzles.

Dramatic change might feel risky, but as Alvaro Reyes discovered, staying confined to what’s “safe” is far riskier to your potential.

The question is, will you chicken out or start living your own dreams?

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